Progressive Prison Project
Innocent Spouse & Children Project
Greenwich, Connecticut
The Wolf of Wall Street On Christmas Day:
The Wolf, Sheep & Goats: Matt 25:31-46
These actual comments and replies from
Forbes concern Mark Hughes' review of
"The Wolf of Wall Street"
and its opening on Christmas Day.
Please feel free to add your thoughts and comments
to this conversation either below
or online at Forbes.
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We have the first ministries in the US to support the families of persons accused or convicted of white-collar and other nonviolent crimes. As see it, the biggest tragedy of all about white-collar and nonviolent crime is not how big the matter is, or sensationalized the headlines – it is in our failure to see it as a human story, with real people, real brokenness, and real families left behind. I went to prison for a white-collar crime myself, so I am especially concerned that this movie does nothing to help.
Rev. Jeff Grant, JD, M Div
Director, Progressive Prison Project/ Innocent Spouse & Children Project
Christ Church Greenwich
254 East Putnam Avenue
Greenwich, Connecticut 06830 USA
Assoc. Minister /
Director of Prison Ministries
First Baptist Church of Bridgeport
126 Washington Avenue, 1st Fl.
Bridgeport, Connecticut 06604
progressiveprisonproject.org
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Mr. Hughes, sincere thanks for your sincere and thoughtful words – truly the kind of message we try to impart in our ministries. Ours is exactly the kind of conversation that is important if we are ever going to be real thought leaders, and on-the-ground change agents, in what you rightly point out as a complex problem. But it in this complexity, perhaps the first steps are always about commitment to, as the late Michael Jackson said, “take a look at yourself and then make a change.” He wasn’t the first to note this:
“Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels. For I was hungry and you gave me nothing to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me nothing to drink, I was a stranger and you did not invite me in, I needed clothes and you did not clothe me, I was sick and in prison and you did not look after me.” Matt. 25:41-43
Let’s take a brief look at what the The Wolf of Wall Street has shown us thus far:
On Christmas Day. On Christmas Day…. Coming to a theater near you, On Christmas Day.
We’ve seen these commercials on television and on the Internet for months. Leonardo Dicaprio – arms flung wide open in full Christ the Savior flagrenti delicto – announcing to the World that The Wolf of Wall Street is Coming to a theater near you on Christmas Day.
Doesn’t this disturb you somehow? It sickens me.
And millions of people will line up to see the spectacle. But there is no crown of thorns in Mr. Scorsese’s Christmas message, no rapture, no risen Christ and message of hope. Just a lot of greedy second rate hustlers who stole a lot of people’s money, and Hollywooders who will make even more off of it – without returning one nickel to the victims.
On Christmas Day.
Well here’s another Hollywood message Mr. Scorsese – in the words of Howard Beal: We’re Mad as Hell, and We’re Not Going to Take It Anymore!
Well, you know that’s not exactly true – we’re going to take it plenty. We’re going to line up and watch this sordid and exagerated tale, take schadenfreude in the downfall of your caricatures, and read sycophant reviews about brilliance and humanitarianism as you all collect your golden statuettes.
It is not our job to judge you (although judged we all shall be). But we do have a suggestion for everybody who is able…
Instead of going to a movie and checking out on Christmas Day, why not go into your own heart and open it, start really speaking to your partner, friend or a family member about the things you feel and need to say, knock on your child’s door and get down on the floor and play with him, read the real Christ story out loud with your family and share the reasons that Jesus brings the message of hope and renewal into our lives, find a family whose father, mother, son or daughter is in prison and invite them into your home, implore your church or faith institution to start an “in-reach” program for people in your own neighborhood who are suffering in silence, and start recognizing that we are all the same.
We live, we make mistakes and God gives us the opportunity to live second, more faithful lives- whether fallen “Wall Street” hedge funders or South Central gang bangers. We are all fragile people bonded by our brokenness.
On Christmas Day.
Blessings,
Rev. Jeff Grant, JD, M Div
Director, Progressive Prison Project/ Innocent Spouse & Children Project
Christ Church Greenwich
254 East Putnam Avenue
Greenwich, Connecticut 06830 USA
Assoc. Minister /
Director of Prison Ministries
First Baptist Church of Bridgeport
126 Washington Avenue, 1st Fl.
Bridgeport, Connecticut 06604 USA
our website:
progressiveprisonproject.org
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Bologna. It’s the worst movie (or one of the worst) I have ever seen. The more he (Scorsese) uses sex and drugs, the more I know he doesn’t have a well-constructed story. He needs to have a lot of therapy, THEN make another movie.
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Stacy WildeI don’t know who the “we” is in your article “We almost seem to admire it, and the film is subtly telling us this is why the excess exists, and why it is punished so modestly — not merely because those with the power are addicted to it and abuse it, but because the vast majority of the rest of us allow it to go on and on some level imagine that perhaps we’ll be invited to the party, too.”I have to wonder about the writer of this article who feels that the vast majority of us want to be invited to that kind of party. The vast majority of people I know could never live with themselves for a minute if they did what these people did in real life. There are many articles on line by people who were directly affected by this gang of thieves, one mans daughter who’s family was completely destroyed, investors who lost everything, agents who spend years of their lives trying to nail these guys. All I know is any time I’ve ever been sent over even as little as a drink at a bar in downtown NY by a group of these kind of hustlers I refuse the drinks, as my girlfriends do too because we find these kinds of men disgusting. We’ll make our own way and our own money in this world with hard work and integrity and a with good decent man beside us with a strong moral compass. What’s Marty’s point in that scene towards the end of the film with the agent on the subway who busted Jordan now reflecting on his ride home , he’s taken down all these crooks but he’s still “sweating his balls off riding the subway” one of Jordan’s lines to him when they first meet. He’s the only appealing character in the film, he’s the hero. He’s who I admire in the film. I’d be the one sending him a drink at a bar, hoping he’d accept.
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Mr. Hughes, I’ve been following The Wolf of Wall Street online comments & replies closely, and I have a couple of things to add that might be helpful.
You end your article by stating that this movie “is a film that speaks to our times.” In my experience, this is simply not the case. We have supplied spiritual support to many people accused or convicted of white-collar crimes and/or their families – the events portrayed in this movie have nothing to do with current themes that these families have experienced and are going through. However, this all did cause me to retrace some of my own personal experiences in the 1970′s that led up to own imprisonment for a white-collar crime. I have posted an excerpt on my blog at progressiveprisonproject.org, “Last Stop Babylon: What It Was Really Like Growing Up On Long Island.” Feel free to let me know what you think.
Rev. Jeff Grant, JD, M Div
Director I Progressive Prison Project I Innocent Spouse & Children Project
Christ Church Greenwich, 254 East Putnam Avenue, Greenwich, CT 06830 USA
Assoc. Minister I Director of Prison Ministries I First Baptist Church of Bridgeport
progressiveprisonproject.org
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Sex, drugs, avarice, unbridled greed? Did not bother me at all. Sheer monotony of story line is what bored me to death, not to mention almost three hours in the pew seat. Goodfellas? One of the best movies ever. Stylistically this Wolf was a lousy knockoff of Henery’s cocaine induced stupor in Goodfellas. Mr. S, your done draw the curtain and retire, please.
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Rev. Jeff Grant, JD, M Div
Director, Progressive Prison Project/
Innocent Spouse & Children Project
Christ Church Greenwich
254 East Putnam Avenue
Greenwich, Connecticut, USA 06830
Assoc. Minister/
Director of Prison Ministries
First Baptist Church of Bridgeport
126 Washington Avenue, 1st Fl.
Bridgeport, Connecticut, USA 06604
Greenwich, Connecticut, USA 06830
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Director of Prison Ministries
First Baptist Church of Bridgeport
126 Washington Avenue, 1st Fl.
Bridgeport, Connecticut, USA 06604
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Beautifully said Rev. Grant and thank you for all that you are doing to shed light on the true story of pain and suffering. May we reflect this Christmas Day that a Savior was born unto all of us! If we spent more time helping those who are broken instead of judging them, opening a heart to those who need us, then maybe some real changes can be made and movies like these don't have to be shown. The only glory we should be giving is to the one who died for all of our sins.
ReplyDeleteThis replies to an Open Letter appearing at LAWeekly.com, by Christina McDowell, whose father went to prison in the Stratton, Oakmont matter depicted in The Wolf of Wall Street:
DeleteDear Christina,
Thank you for your heartfelt and courageous letter. My family and I believe that we understand and commiserate with you.
As a person who committed and went to prison for a white-collar crime, I have since dedicated my life to helping families in suffering communities in the inner city and in white collar and nonviolent settings. My journey took me from prison, to earning a Master of Divinity at Union Theological Seminary in NYC, to becoming Associate Minister/Director of Prison Ministries at The First Baptist Church of Bridgeport, CT, to founding the first ministries in the US created to support the families of persons accused or convicted of white-collar and other nonviolent crimes.
We have been concerned ever since we first learned that The Wolf of Wall Street would be adapted into a movie - we had read Mr. Belfort's book and couldn't find any redemptive quality in it whatsoever. What benefit could a movie about this book bring to the world? We have been posting our concerns on our blog at progressiveprisonproject.org, and on Twitter at jeffgrant_ct. These concerns have been included as well as "called-out" comments by Mark Hughes in his column in Forbes.
I went see this movie today with my sister, we both lived through a lot of the subject matter included in the book and movie. My sister visited me in prison, and has written about it on our blog. (I would not see this or any movie on Christmas Day that has been described on Twitter as "pornographic".) My simple review of the movie is: "tragic." It is all so tragic, every bit of it - a point that the movie glosses over as it tries so desperately to entertain. I am sure a lot of people have been, or will be, entertained by this movie. They didn't tragically live through it, or weren't tragically harmed by people like the people in this movie. The fact that Mr. Scorcese has avoided the real story - the tragedy - is unto itself a tragedy.
But as see it, the biggest tragedy of all about white-collar and nonviolent crime is not how big the matter is, or sensationalized the headlines – it is in our failure to see it as a human story, with real people, real brokenness, and real families left behind.
Christina, please feel free to contact us if there is anything we can do to help you or anyone you care about.
Blessings,
Rev. Jeff Grant, JD, M Div
Director, Progressive Prison Project/ Innocent Spouse & Children Project
Christ Church Greenwich
254 East Putnam Avenue
Greenwich, Connecticut 06830 USA
Assoc. Minister /
Director of Prison Ministries
First Baptist Church of Bridgeport
126 Washington Avenue, 1st Fl.
Bridgeport, Connecticut 06604
progressiveprisonproject.org