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The Message is the Medium, By Jeff Grant, JD, M Div: Overcoming the Negative Messages We Tell Ourselves & Receive From Others

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The Message is the Medium:

Overcoming the Negative Messages We Tell

Ourselves & Receive From Others

By Jeff Grant, JD, M Div

Please help us by adding to this list of internal &

external, negative & positive messages. Your online comments, texts and emails are appreciated.

The results will be included in an upcoming article!

Internal Messages:

From Negative: Shame, Regret, Fear, Remorse, Failure, Hopeless, Helpless, Stuck, Depression, Life is Over, Useless, Doormat, Unworthy, Fear, Projecting, Isolation, Substance Abuse, Mental Illness, Outcast, Criminal, Felon, Anger, Outcomes, Attachment, Lonely, Sadness, Compulsions, False Pride, Mourning, Sloth, Envy, Jealousy, Victim, Disbelief, Expectations...

To Positive: Accomplished, Resilient, Resourceful, Faith, Hope, Talented, Lovable, Acceptance, Surrender, Love, Respect, Forgiveness, Accountability, Passion, Re-purpose, Friend, Husband, Wife, Father, Son, Daughter, Citizen, Voter, Taxpayer, Empathy, Compassion, Kindness, Understanding, Self-worth, Self-esteem, Debt paid, Service, Proud, Process, Free, Health...

External Messages:

From Negative: Stigma, Ostracism, Shunning, Fear, Blaming, Marginalization, Litigation, Divorce, Separation, Estrangement, Schadenfreude, NIMBY, Outcast, Banish, Hurt, Disappointment, Victim, Resentment, Retribution, Revenge, Justice, Restitution, Anger, Damnation...

To Positive: Forgiveness, Empathy, Understanding, Tolerance, Compassion, Caring, Support, Service, Reconciliation, Amnesty, Pardon, Opportunity, Community, Settlement, Compromise...

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The darkest days of a person's life can be a

time of renewal and hope

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Lisa LawlerAugust 18, 2016 at 5:24 PM
Jeff/Lynn, what a worthwhile interactive project piece. All the words and phrases I see above certainly apply. I will add my own here from the POV of a white collar wife: Internal Neg = Acute Betrayal. Internal Pos = Growth. External Neg = Guilt by Association. External Pos = Education. I know there are a thousand other words that come to mind. This is a very effective tool for processing. I look forward to the article. As always, your good works are much appreciated.
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Fisher Freedom FundAugust 18, 2016 at 6:06 PM
I feel that since God made us and loves us for us we should do the same to ourselves and each other. None of us is perfect there is only one that is perfect and he is our Lord and Father. We all are made from him in life.
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This is not your average “TED Talk.” In his talk at TNP3, Jeff publicly revealed his addiction to prescription painkillers, white-collar crime, arrest, time in a Federal prison, earning a Master of Divinity from Union Theological Seminary, calling as Assoc. Minister in a rough Bridgeport CT neighborhood, and then co-founding the first ministry in the United States created to support individuals and families with white-collar and nonviolent incarceration issues. We are grateful to The Nantucket Project for its leadership in the justice reform movement. Click Image to view Video. (17:27)

Event: We Were Discussion Panelists at a Screening of the Movie "13th," Sat., April 8, 2017

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If you, a friend or a family member are experiencing a white-collar or nonviolent incarceration issue, please contact us and we will promptly send you an information package by mail, email or via Dropbox. The darkest days of a person's life can be a time of renewal and hope.

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About Lynn Springer

Lynn Springer is the Founding Advocate of the Innocent Spouse & Children Project. As the innocent partner of a white-collar criminal, and a mother, Lynn is called to this ministry with a heart of compassion and understanding. She assists women and families in finding ethical ways through faith and practical solutions to a new, sturdy, healthy way of life. Lynn’s concern for children and social justice for all people led her to several nonprofit Board and volunteer situations, including: as curriculum consultant and essay reader at Friends of Nick, a NYC faith-based foundation created to build character and integrity in underprivileged inner city youth; as a member of the Board of Directors of Pathways, Greenwich, CT, at which she advocated for the needs and care of the mentally ill; and on the Board of the International Aids Charitable Foundation, NYC. She is a long-time supporter of criminal justice/prison initiatives: Re-Entry Ministry, a faith- based halfway house for women in E. Bridgeport, CT, Family ReEntry in Bridgeport & New Haven, CT, a nonprofit serving formerly incarcerated people and their families, and Pivot Ministries, Bridgeport, CT, a faith-based halfway house for addiction recovery. As a woman of faith, Lynn was pleased to serve terms as Deacon and Senior Deacon at the Second Congregational Church of Greenwich, CT. Together with her husband Rev. Jeff Grant, Lynn co-founded the Fresh Start Garden of Hope - a Family Reentry project where ex-offenders helped to convert a blighted block in inner city Bridgeport into the largest privately owned public use park and garden in the State of Connecticut. Lynn and Jeff speak together about their ministry on a regular basis on local radio shows and in houses of worship. For more information and to reach Lynn Springer: prisonist.org, lspringer@prisonist.org.

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Some Scripture & Quotes That Have Called To Us

"…for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust." - Matt.5:45

"...the stone which the builders rejected has become the chief cornerstone." - Psalm 118 (KJV)

"Where there is no vision, people perish..." - Proverbs 29.18

"Remember those in prison as though you were in prison with them." - Hebrews 13:3

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"As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. We need not wait to see what others do.” - Mahatma Gandhi

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"What you have as heritage, take now as task; for thus you will make it your own." - Goethe

"When it is dark enough, you can see the stars." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"A man is at his strongest when he is willing to be vulnerable." - Paulo Coelho

"You were sick, but now you're well, and there's work to do." - Kurt Vonnegut

"If leaders are unable to slough off yesterday, to abandon yesterday, they simply will not be able to create tomorrow." - Peter Drucker

Broad, wholesome, charitable views of men and things cannot be acquired by vegetating in one little corner of the earth all one’s lifetime.” – Mark Twain

"I thanked him much for telling me the way he got his wealth, but chiefly for his wish that he might drink my noble health." - Lewis Carroll

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"Everything will turn out alright in the end, and if it's not alright, then it's not the end." - from The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel

"Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better." - Samuel Beckett

"...and in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make." - Paul McCartney

"We cannot run society for the privileged and allow a significant portion of the population to be marginalized. It impacts the quality of life for all of us if we have 'throw-away' people. A justice system which tolerates injustice is doomed to collapse." - Leonard Noisette

"Hear this, young men and women everywhere, and proclaim it far and wide. The earth is yours and the fullness thereof. Be kind, but be fierce. You are needed now more than ever before. Take up the mantle of change. For this is your time." - Winston Churchill

"No amount of falls will really undo of us if we keep on picking ourselves up each time. We shall of course be very muddy and tattered children by the time we reach home. But the bathrooms are all ready, the towels put out, and the clean clothes are in the airing cupboard.... It is when we notice the dirt that God is most present to us: it is the very sign of his presence ." - C.S. Lewis

"Without community, there is no liberation...but community must not mean a shedding of our differences, nor the pathetic pretense that these differences do not exist." - Audre Lourde

“Do you see the consequences of the way we have chosen to think about success? Because we so profoundly personalize success, we miss opportunities to lift others onto the top rung...We are too much in awe of those who succeed and far too dismissive of those who fail. And most of all, we become much too passive. We overlook just how large a role we all play—and by “we” I mean society—in determining who makes it and who doesn’t.” - Malcolm Gladwell

"Never, never be afraid to do what's right, especially if the well-being of a person or animal is at stake. Society's punishments are small compared to the wounds we inflict on our soul when we look the other way." - Martin Luther King, Jr.

"As long as one people sit on another and are deaf to their cry, so long will understanding and peace elude all of us."- Chinua Achebe

“The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” - Nelson Mandela

“A new civil rights movement cannot be organized around the relics of the earlier system of control if it is to address meaningfully the racial realities of our time. Any racial justice movement, to be successful, must vigorously challenge the public consensus that underlies the prevailing system of control. Nooses, racial slurs, and overt bigotry are widely condemned by people across the political spectrum; they are understood to be remnants of the past, no longer reflective of the prevailing public consensus about race. Challenging these forms of racism is certainly necessary, as we must always remain vigilant, but it will do little to shake the foundations of the current system of control. The new caste system, unlike its predecessors, is officially colorblind. We must deal with it on its own terms.” - Michelle Alexander

“For to be free is not merely to cast off one's chains, but to live in a way that respects and enhances the freedom of others.” - Nelson Mandela

"In my country we go to prison first and then become President." -Nelson Mandela

Notices

Founded in 2012, the Progressive Prison Project/Innocent Spouse & Children Project are Missions of the Progressive Prison Ministries, Inc. - incorporated under the State of Connecticut Religious Corporations Law in 2014; 501c3 approval in 2015.

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Tuesday, August 2, 2016

The Message is the Medium, By Jeff Grant, JD, M Div: Overcoming the Negative Messages We Tell Ourselves & Receive From Others

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